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What To Do (and Not Do) When You Get Ghosted

Ghosted? 💔 Here’s why chasing closure is a dead end—and what you should focus on instead to heal and move forward stronger. #SelfWorth

If you’re dating these days, you’ve probably been GHOSTED once or twice.  (Or more.)  It’s rough.  But a relationship expert just weighed in on what you should and shouldn’t do when it happens.

Let’s start with the SHOULDN’T.  Basically, don’t look for closure, no matter how much you want it.  You can send ONE follow-up text checking in, but if they don’t respond, that silence may be all the closure you get.

So what SHOULD you do?  Instead of looking for answers from the person who ghosted you, check in with yourself to reflect on the relationship.

Ask yourself things like what you liked about the relationship . . . what you didn’t . . . and what you might want in the future.  And resist the urge to blame yourself for things going wrong.

(PureWow)

Scott and Sadie

Meet Scott and Sadie: the anti-heroes of morning radio turned podcast renegades. Scott’s 40 years in broadcasting have left him fluent in snark, while Sadie’s nepotistic origins (thanks, Mom!) brought the unfiltered charm that made them a Northern Colorado favorite. After corporate radio ghosted them harder than a bad Tinder date, the duo ditched FCC babysitters and went full rogue. Now, they’re back with a podcast that’s equal parts wit, sarcasm, and a big middle finger to mediocrity. Loyal fans, curious newcomers, or algorithm strays—welcome to the chaos.

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